DISOBLIGING
disobliging, uncooperative
(adjective) intentionally unaccommodating; “the action was not offensive to him but proved somewhat disobliging”
Source: WordNet® 3.1
Verb
disobliging
present participle of disoblige
Adjective
disobliging (comparative more disobliging, superlative most disobliging)
Not obliging; not making an effort to respect the needs and wishes of others; unaccommodating.
Source: Wiktionary
Dis`o*bli"ging, a.
1. Not obliging; not disposed to do a favor; unaccommodating; as, a
disobliging person or act.
2. Displeasing; offensive. [Obs.] Cov. of Tongue.
– Dis`o*bli"ging*ly, adv.
– Dis`o*bli"ging*ness, n.
DISOBLIGE
Dis`o*blige", v. t. [imp. & p. p. Disobliged; p. pr. & vb. n.
Disobliging.] Etym: [Pref. dis- + oblige: cf. F. désobliger.]
1. To do an act which contravenes the will or desires of; to offend
by an act of unkindness or incivility; to displease; to refrain from
obliging; to be unaccommodating to.
Those . . . who slight and disoblige their friends, shall infallibly
come to know the value of them by having none when they shall most
need them. South.
My plan has given offense to some gentlemen, whom it would not be
very safe to disoblige. Addison.
2. To release from obligation. [Obs.]
Absolving and disobliging from a more general command for some just
and reasonable cause. Milton.
Source: Webster’s Unabridged Dictionary 1913 Edition